We began using Zones of Regulation at Greet in September 2022. We hope that this will help our children to learn how to manage their difficult emotions.

What is the Zones of Regulation intervention?

The Zones of Regulation is an internationally renowned intervention which helps children to managed difficult emotions. This is known as 'self-regulation' 

Self-regulation can go by many names such as 'self-control', 'impulse management' and 'self management'. Self- regulation is best described as the best state of alertness for a situation. For example, when your child takes part in a sports match, they would need to have a higher state of alertness than when, for example, in the library.

From time to time, all of us (including adults) find it hard to manage strong feelings such as worry, anger, fear or tiredness, and this stops us from getting on with our day effectively. Children who feel these emotions often find it hard to learn and concentrate in school. The Zones of Regulation aim to teach children strategies to help them cope with these feelings so they can get back to feeling calm and ready to learn. These coping strategies are called 'self-regulation'.

At Greet Primary we use the Zones of Regulation across the whole school. We want to teach all of our children good coping strategies so they can help themselves when they experience anxiety, stress or anger. In the classroom children sometimes panic when they face a tricky learning problem or challenge. By teaching them how to cope with these feelings we hope to make them better at tackling learning challenges. This builds resilience so they don't give up easily when faced with difficulty.

We want every child at Greet to grow into successful teenagers and adults. Teaching children at a young age about managing their feelings will support them later in life so that they don't turn to negative coping strategies which could impact their mental and physical wellbeing.

We aim to help children to:

  • Recognise when they are in the different Zones and learn how to change or stay in the Zone they are in.
  • Increase their emotional vocabulary so they can explain how they are feeling.
  • Recognise when other people are in different Zones, thus developing their empathy.
  • Develop an insights into what might make them move into the different Zones.
  • Understand that emotions and sensory experiences, such as lack of sleep or hunger, might influence the Zone they are in.
  • Develop problem solving skills and resilience.
  • Identify a range of strategies to support them, known as their 'toolkit'.

What are the different Zones?

Blue Zone: low level of arousal; not ready to learn; feels sad, sick, tired, bored, moving slowly.

Green Zone: calm state of alertness; optimal level to learn; feels happy, calm, feeling okay, focused.

Yellow Zone: hightened state of alertness; elevated emotions; has some control; feels frustrated, worried, silly/wiggly, excited, loss of some control.

Red Zone: heightened state of alertness and intense emotions; not at an optimal level for learning; out of control; feels mad/angry, yelling/hitting, elated, out of control.

We teach children that everyone experiences all of the zones. The Red and Yellow Zones are not 'bad' or 'naughty' Zones. All of the Zones are expected at one time or another. We will show them that the Blue Zone, for example, is helpful when you are trying to fall asleep.

We explain to the children that all feelings are ok, it is how we manage and respond to them that is important. 

How do we teach the children about the Zones of Regulation?

We teach the Zones of Regulation through our PSHE lessons as well as discrete lessons at the start of each academic year. We also use the Zones of Regulation language as part of daily school life. All staff refer to them, not just class teachers.

Children who work with our learning mentor team use the Zones of Regulation in their mentoring sessions.

Some children might prefer not to use the Zones language but label the emotions directly - this is fine and encouraged.

I want to know more about the Zones of Regulation

Please have a look at the pages below if you want to find out more information about the Zones of Regulation, including how to use them at home with your child.

  • Identify your own feelings using Zones language in front of your child (e.g.: I’m frustrated. I think I am in the Yellow Zone.”)
  • Talk about what tool you will use to be in the appropriate Zone (e.g.: “I need to take four deep breaths to help get me back to the Green Zone.”)
  • At times, wonder which Zone your child is in. Or, discuss which Zone a character in a film / book might be in. (e.g.: “You look sleepy. Are you in the Blue Zone?”)
  • Engage your child in discussion around Zones when they are in the Red Zone is unlikely to be effective. You need to be discussing the different Zones and tools they can use when they are more regulated / calm.
  • Teach your child which tools they can you. (eg: “It’s time for bed. Let’s read a book together in the comfy chair to get you in the Blue Zone.”)
  • Regular Check-ins. “How are you feeling now?”  and “How can you get back to Green?”
  • Modelling It is important to remember to show the children how you use tools to get back to the green zones. You might say “I am going to make myself a cup of tea and do some breathing exercises because I am in the blue zone” and afterwards tell your child how using those tools helped you get back to the green zone.
  • Share how their behaviour is affecting your Zone. For example, if they are in the Green Zone, you could comment that their behaviour is also helping you feel happy / go into the Green Zone.
  • Put up and reference the Zones visuals and tools in your home.
  • Praise and encourage your child when they share which Zone they are in

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  • Know yourself and how you react in difficult situations before dealing with your child’s behaviours.
  • Know your child’s sensory threshold. We all process sensory information differently and it impacts our reactivity to situations.
  • Know your child’s triggers.
  • Be consistent in managing your child’s behaviour and use the same language.
  • Empathise with your child and validate what they are feeling.
  • Have clear boundaries/routines and always follow through.
  • Do not deal with an angry, upset child when you are not yet calm yourself.
  • Discuss strategies for the next time when you are in a similar situation.
  • Remember to ask your child how their choices made you feel (empathy).
  • Praise your child for using strategies. Encourage your child to take a sensory break to help regulate their bodies.
  • Create a ‘calm’ box full of things which help to keep your child calm and alert. Advice about what could go in the box can be found on our website in the ‘Zones Toolkit’ section.

Can my child be in more than one zone at the same time?

Yes.

Your child may feel tired (blue zone) because they did not get enough sleep, and anxious (yellow zone) because they are worried about an activity at school. Listing more than one Zone reflects a good sense of personal feelings and alertness levels.

Should children be punished for being in the RED Zone?

Children should not be punished for being in the Red zone.

If a child's actions/choices hurt someone or destroyed property whilst they were in the Red Zone they need to repair the relationship and take responsibility for the actions/choices the carried out. Once the child has calmed down, use the experience as a learning opportunity to process what the child would do differently next time.

Can you look like one Zone on the outside and feel like you are in another Zone on the inside?

Yes.

Many of us “disguise” our Zone to match social expectations. We use the expression “put on a happy face” or mask the emotion so other people will have good thoughts about us. Parents often say that their children “lose it” and goes into the Red Zone as soon as they get home. This is because children are increasing their awareness of their peers and expectations when in the classroom. They make every effort to keep it together at school to stay in the Green Zone. Home is when they feel safe to let it all out.

Where can I get more information about the Zones of Regulation?

Zones of Regulation website

We Are Teachers website
18 activities to help children manage their emotions

The OT Toolbox website
Self-regulation activities

He's Extraordinary website
https://hes-extraordinary.com/the-zones-of-regulation